Dear Littler B,
First and foremost I need to apologize for yesterday’s letter. Fear and panic ruled the day yesterday. I can tell you that even though you have “grown up” (notice that is in quotes), you have not necessarily shed all of your issues. Just traded one set of worries for another. That’s part of life. If you didn’t worry about something/someone it means you really don’t care as much as you think.
You are human. You need to try to remember that. The beautiful perfect imperfection that is humanity. You are going to have days that you doubt, you are going to have (more than your share) of days that you panic, and you are going to have days where you just don’t know what to do.
What you need to know is that you are going to have to keep on going and keep on trying. Things always find a way of working out the way they are supposed to in the end. The results may not take on the shape of the win you expect, however they take on the shape of the win that is supposed to be. Life is a great big balance. Everything finds a way to even out in the end.
Today, for example it’s time to move forward. One of the things that ensures you don’t stay stagnant in life is the fact that you adopt early on an attitude of measuring and pushing yourself. You set goals. I can not begin to tell you how well this will serve you over the course of my last 25 years. Not just the big things like most people do, but the little things.
The most important aspect of these goals is that you let yourself celebrate achieving each one. I’m not saying go spend a lot of money and go crazy because you hit a daily quota but RECOGNIZE! So many people don’t know how important it is to your self-worth to allow yourself to do that simple yet important thing! No matter how small or how large, you set an achievement – give yourself a metaphorical pat on the back!
While these letters have been intended for you, I set myself a goal. I determined that if these letters had fallen into the hands of 2500 other people I would celebrate it by transferring these letters over to a dedicated web site instead of a generic website designed to house letters like this for many people. It is an exciting day for me. I am not quite sure what it is going to look like yet, how it is going to
operate or if it is a wise move but I can’t wait to see where the next leg of this journey takes us.
How am I going to celebrate? I’m going to award myself with a few hours away from the computer to walk the trails at the V.A. and enjoy the non-digital sun, the non-mp3 sounds of the birds (don’t worry you’ll know what that is in a few years) and the non-photoshopped absolutely beautiful people of the town. In essence, I’m giving myself a day off.
Celebrate, dear littler me. Celebrate the big achievements and the small. You will live a much happier life if you do.
Putting on my shoes and taking off,
Bigger Little B
Today’s Celebration Music Provided By
Kool & The Gang – Celebrate
Toby Keith – Red Solo Cup
Smash Mouth – All Star
Bachman Turner Overdrive – Takin Care of Business
Queen – Don’t Stop Me Now
Katy Perry – Firework
Black Eyed Peas – I Got a Feeling
Kenny Loggins – Footloose
Madonna – Holiday